This is not a business instruction. It is an existential demand.
Most people — and most businesses — live reactively. They wait for the world to tell them who to be. A customer complains, they adjust. A competitor moves, they follow. They mistake responsiveness for strategy and survival for living. Blanchard's first secret breaks this passivity at the root: before you ask the world what it wants, know what you stand for.
It is a declaration of being.
This echoes a thread through almost all serious philosophy. Nietzsche called it self-overcoming — the refusal to be merely shaped by external forces. The Stoics called it prohairesis — the inner faculty of choice no circumstance can take from you. The Bhagavad Gita says the same through Krishna: act from your svadharma, your own essential nature, not from the noise around you.
In business terms: Who are we, even when no one is watching? What would we still do, even if no customer ever asked for it? The companies and people who answer this clearly become magnetic. The ones who don't, drift.